As parents we almost always sigh with relief when the last school door closes for the summer! Along with our children, we have worked really hard keeping track of schedules, homework and other assignments, and outside activities plus daily cooking, cleaning, washing, etc! Before you jump into your summer schedule (which is almost as busy!), take time to decompress with your child, especially if its been a year of struggle. This might include taking time to talk about the past school year and writing your child’s thoughts down by his yearly school picture:
What did you like about the year? Friends? Teacher? A special subject?
What did you like least about the year?
What was your favorite subject? Why?
Then you may want to take time to think through these questions by yourself plus the following ones:
What would you change if you could go back? This may help you avoid the same issues this coming year.
What progress did you see your child make? Sometimes if there is a learning difference its easier to see the struggles than the progress. Make notes of even a tiny bit of progress in an area.
How do you need to prepare now for the fall? If tutoring or therapy is involved, its time to make that scheduled appointment now if you want after school hours.
Now have FUN!!!! Summer can be about work but must be about FUN and PLAY for both you and your child!