As parents approach the end of school, you may also experience sadness due to expectations that were not met. Are you asking:
1. Why did my child not progress as much as I thought he would?
2. What should I have done differently?
3. Why did the teacher not push harder?
4. Why did the long hours of homework, therapy, and frustration not “pay off”?
Making a list of your child’s accomplishments for this semester may help you see his progress! Try to focus on even little things as they do indicate that your child has moved forward. Though it may appear that struggles outweigh progress, focus on the accomplishments and praise your child. He needs your praise and encouragement to keep trying! Please seek professional help if you feel “stuck” with your discouraged feelings or if they turn to anger toward your child.
Other helpful blog from Lyn: Encouragement to Parents: Grief